rigour6, on Sep 2 2005, 12:26 PM, said:
As I have said before, I am certainly one of ther worst TDs going.
That said, there are differences between f2f and on-line. They include:
1. There are no stakes. The goal is to have fun, not accumulate masterpoints. So rather than making the emphasis on getting things right and fair, sometimes keeping things moving is at a premium.
jillybean2, on Sep 2 2005, 12:44 PM, said:
shoeless, on Sep 1 2005, 02:27 PM, said:
I think you have a homing device for inadequate directors Candybar - my recommendation - turn it off - find and play in the tournaments directed by people who don't do those things that annoy you so much. To my mind trashing people who are trying (likely learning in the process), maybe don't know as much as you, and giving their time to organize something for others, isn't exactly saintly behaviour. I do not believe for one minute that this situation is as poisonous as you make it out to be. Thousands of people play here everyday and we have a handful of forum users sniping at bad directors. Are they bad? Likely in some situations - yup. Are they destroying BBO? Not even close. Are they destroying your bridge life? Nope, think this is a blast for you. I remember some dark days when I was terminally cranky and a friend of mine saying, "Shoeless, your garbage is starting to stink - you should take it out."
I can't agree more

next topic please
The goal of this game is to play well, to enjoy a partnership game with a chosen partner, against opponents who are playing fair and using the same rules for everyone, the rules of bridge.
I think the 'homing device' problem is not mine, but something that draws people to try and be a TD when they don't know the rules, don't care about them, care only about 'keeping things moving', and couldn't give a fig whether the players in their tournaments get a fair and enjoyable game of bridge or not. Ask yourself why you want to be a TD when you really don't care about doing it right.
I have been extremely surprised at the number of private emails and messages I have received from people agreeing with my posts in this forum.
Here is an example quote: "I highly regard and respect you for your candidness in these forums. In virtually every post you express my sentiments exactly." and "Thanks for your efforts. You speak for many players."
Frankly, I'd prefer that those "many players" would speak up for themselves, so I don't look like the lone ranger on these issues. However, one person said, "I decided a long time ago to stop posting because I don't believe that anyone cares if BBO improves or not."
So, flame me all you want, but all you do is intimidate people like the above quoted one from posting their honest opinions. As another person said, "BBO has become another yahoo but with a nicer interface", and I am doing the only thing I know to improve that situation -- make my ideas public.