Cyberyeti, on 2026-October-29, 12:41, said:
are you saying you don't double 3♠ with a 1444 13 ? that's losing bridge, the hand with short spades must act
If I bid, I'm not acting "with short spades". I'm committing our side to either play 3S doubled or play a contract at the 4 level with a hand that isn't good enough to do either. I certainly have lost more often than I've won, but I've also won my share. I don't consider being preempted successfully the end of the world.

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