Stephen Tu, on Jan 7 2005, 08:20 PM, said:
At what point did I say you were wrong about the combination? I merely disagreed with you about the advisability of using computer programs to aid analysis. This is obviously my opinion, most of discussion on these boards is opinion, and to me it is a waste of typing to have to always add "respectfully, in my opinion" to every post to avoid it being taken the wrong way; shouldn't that just be a given? I never mean to disrespect anyone; sometimes it is hard to convey tone without vocal inflection, and one's writing style I guess can be misinterpreted. All my posts are meant with all due respect. But do I really have to cut & paste "I respectfully disagree" to every one of my posts to avoid being flamed?
Stephen,
You never disagreed with my analysis of the suit combination and, if you had, it would have been easy to demonstrate which one of us had made the mistake. In fact, if you read my posts carefully you see that I was obviously impressed by your ability to solve these problems. I didn't say so explicitly, but it is clear to me that of all the people who have participated in all of the suit combination threads, you are one of the best at this.
What you did disagree with me about was my advice on how one should best utilize analysis software (or not utilize it) if one wants to maximize the benefit that he gains from these problems (the goal being to become as good a bridge player as you possibly can).
You could easily be just as good (or even better) than I am when it comes to solving suit combinations, but I believe I am in a much better position than you are to judge how a typical talented player can raise his or her game to the next level (that is, going from being talented to being a player who wins). The reason I believe this is because I have considerable experience and success in this area and, to the best of my knowledge, you do not.
Of course it is your right to disagree with me or anybody else about whatever subject you want, but the tone of your post suggested (to me) an air of authority that you have no right (in my opinion) to have. I find that offensive. It would be like me going up to Bob Hamman and telling him that 4-card majors sucked. Even if I believed that, I would never say it. I might ask Bob why he likes 4-card majors so much and, if I did not understand his reasons, I might ask him to clarify. However, I would not tell him he was wrong even if I thought his answers made no sense. I would realize I was talking to someone who was an expert in this field and try to learn as much from him as possible.
I don't think there is much point in continuing this discussion. I have tried to explain why I reacted the way I did. I do not think I owe you an apology and I certainly do not require one from you. I am more than willing to let the matter drop.
If other people out there think I was way out of line with my comments, I will at least reconsider the concept of apologizing. Please make a post if you think that Stephen deserves an apology from me (but please read all of the relevant posts carefully before doing so).
Fred Gitelman
Bridge Base Inc.
www.bridgebase.com