EricK, on 2011-November-07, 12:29, said:
Consider the simplest scenario:
You open 1♠, partner responds 1NT which you alert
Not going to happen since, like Aguahombre, I'm in the ACBL, and we announce "forcing" or "semi-forcing" as appropriate. However, in the unlikely event I'm back in England for this session, yes, I'd alert.
EricK, on 2011-November-07, 12:29, said:
and RHO simply asks what that is, and you reply "forcing 1NT". RHO now passes. Is it really legal for you to pass (assuming you genuinely play the 1NT as forcing rather than semi-forcing, and you haven't psyched)?
Yes, it is. However, in England, where the forcing NT was certainly rare when I was there 20 years ago, and probably still is, I wouldn't answer "forcing 1NT," I would give a full description of our agreement: "5 to a bad 12 HCP, balanced, unbalanced with a 5 card or longer suit, or possibly a 3 card limit raise, forcing". If partner is a passed hand, I might announce "semi-forcing" when I have that agreement, leave out the reference to a limit raise (with that hand, partner would make a different bid) and change "forcing" to "nominally forcing, but I might pass with a minimum opener". (NB: some pairs play 1NT as always "semi-forcing"). ACBL regulations, in another rare instance where they are IMO better than EBU regs, explicitly state that explaining a convention by naming it is insufficient disclosure; you must describe the agreed meaning. I don't see that in the Orange Book, but I believe the principle is followed by English directors. Others here may be able to confirm that (or not).
EricK, on 2011-November-07, 12:29, said:
Suppose you do pass and it turns out that RHO has nothing much - i.e. no particular reason to ask the question (other than idle curiosity) - and 1NT is a worse contract than you would have reached had you made your systemic bid, would you feel RHO had damaged you by the question, or would you feel that you had "taken an inference from opponents' mannerisms, at your own risk" and let it go?
If you would just let it go, then at least that is a consistent position. But it does mean that opps must continually ask the meaning of your bids whether or not it affects them this round, or be at a constant disadvantage. And as far as I am aware, many regulating authorities act as if asking when you having nothing to think about is equivalent to hesitating with a singleton, or other sharp practices.
Most likely I would let it go as you say, I passed "at my own risk". However, if RHO generated a lot of histrionics along with his question, I would probably ask for a ruling. After all, if he's just curious, what were all the histrionics about?
The EBU
Orange Book is well worth reading on these matters. Chapter 3 covers disclosure, and chapter 5 covers alerting and announcing. Some of what's in there may surprise you.

The
Tangerine Book is a good summary of the Orange Book specifically for players, but its coverage of these matters is much less thorough.