mikeh, on Apr 1 2009, 08:02 PM, said:
My advice: always act as if partner can be trusted. Sometimes, you will be mistaken. So what? You will be developing good habits and a good reputation as a reliable partner. You will become easier to play with.
If this partner is someone you may want to play with again, it is imperative that you pass, and, if need be, point them later to this thread, so that they realize that they cannot expect you to save them from a bad double.
Even if you have no intention of playing with this partner, you should always strive to make the proper call.... when partner has a real double, and you pull, you will feel badly and your partner and everyone at the table will doubt your reliability, including you! OTOH, if partner made a mistake, it's partner's mistake and not yours. What I am trying to say is NEVER make your calls on the assumption, not based on any evidence, that partner has erred.
Mike, with all due respect, that sounds like unlucky expert talk to me
There's a time to trust partner and a time to trust opponents. Even the all-time great, Bob Hamman, says that. Remember his one of his rules? "If everybody is bidding the heck out, trust opponents, not Bob"
Sure, trusting pard is, in theory, the right thing. It certainly is at the beginner level. To do it blindly, even when there are clear signs pard might be misjudging, can win you the post-mortem, but that's not where battles are won.