Posted 2008-August-18, 02:23
My reaction to this tale:
I hate psychs. If you NEVER psych, you have the right to be somewhat pissed. If you were solid all day and your partner is responsible for most of the bad results, you have the right to be pretty darn pissed.
However, if she was solid, the team was underperforming, and she got dealt a yarb, I can see how that might be a situation where someone might be tempted to psych.
When I played with a partner who psyched frequently, I got upset primarily for 2 reasons:
1) That behavior screams 'we're not good enough to beat these guys by playing 'normally.''
2) That behavior often can put a ton of ethical pressure on partner.
But when the opponents behave in a completely inappropriate way towards pard, that's when my animosity towards partner completely evaporates. You back up your partner's legal behavior 100% and let the opponents know that they are in the wrong and are "interfering with your enjoyment of the game" (that's the standard ZT warning). I don't understand why she would 'do her darndest to throw two more boards afterwards' if she was upset with their reaction as opposed to being upset with your reaction.
As to where I'd rate the behavior of the people at your table on your scale:
The opponents' behavior was 'disgusting'.
Whoever played worse in your partnership during the preceding 4 matches gets a 'bad.'
Whoever played better in your partnership during the preceding 4 matches gets a 'I understand it, though it would not have been my choice.'
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