pbleighton, on Aug 31 2007, 03:11 PM, said:
Ken, following your logic:
Rape has always been with us, and will probably always will be with us.
Therefore, it's cool.
Do I understand you correctly?
Peter
In a manner of speaking, I suppose. As a big stretch metaphor.
The idea is not that "it's cool." The idea is that it's necessary. I'm not all that certain that rape can be categorized as necessary.
However, the logic extension, albeit flawed in your use, might be useful nonetheless.
You are in a room. There is a gun in the room, and a knife. You are a nice person, but the sole other person in the room is a rapist. He wants you bad. You are not all into him like that.
So, you run for the gun, and he grabs the knife.
Three things could happen, IMO.
1. You could shoot him senselessly between the eyes. That might be a tad extreme. When you have him, you have him. No need to be brutal.
2. You could suggest that everyone put down their weapons and talk. He would likely agree. He might even be very reasonable about it. Then, you get raped. If you want, you can take it and understand whatever suffering as a kid he must have experienced to justify this behavior.
3. You could point your gun and him and threaten him. If he approaches anyway, you could fire a warning shot (hopefully you have enough bullets). You might then, if necessary, shoot him in the leg and hope that works. If all fails, then you must resort to shooting him.
Ah! But is this not really unfair if your father raped him and made him the way he is? Sure. But, I ain't letting him rape me to make up for it.
What about the fact that he is so messed up that he cannot get any dates with real nice people? And, because you are not messed up, you get to date all the people he does not get to date. His pain lets you have more options. Does this mean that you'll let him rape you, just this once? I doubt it.
What if you yourself tormented him as a kid? What if you made fun of him for what your own father did? Let him rape you now? Probably not so much.
Now, once you have this guy in complete control, where he cannot rape you, might you try to do something to help him? Sure! Why not?
Thank God he did not get the gun and you the knife. He would rape you, of course. However, he would also beat you down for even thinking about resisting him, pistol-whip you, take your knife and cut you with it, find your family and do the same to them, and then perhaps eventually turn on himself and finally end the suffering by his own self-destruction.
Back way up. Suppose he held a knife to the throat of some third person in the room. Does that change the analysis? Would you try your damnedest to stop him, but not by dropping the gun, allowing him to do whatever he wants to both of you?
Oh -- wait! That's where Hollywood comes into play. Sure -- drop the gun. Somehow the hero wins when he drops the gun.
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