mikeh, on Jan 11 2007, 11:29 PM, said:
However, declarer tanked and I drifted off. Then he played the ♥ J from his hand, and I broke tempo. I was not considering covering, that decision had been made several tricks earlier.. I had just lost focus. So I reflexively said what I always said in such circumstance: 'sorry, no problem'
Declarer looked at me and then called for the K, losing to the A... he had Jx and got a poor result. He never said a word, but I knew that he had marked me mentally as a coffee-houser or worse, and I was incredibly embarrassed.
I don't get your story.
- Wasn't your comment completely honest? Wouldn't you have much more of a problem with Axx? (Wouldn't it be much more coffee-housing saying "no problem" with Axx? Or breaking tempo with Qxx and saying nothing?)
- Anyway, shouldn't any decent declarer have noticed that you just had lost focus? Actually, what does breaking tempo after a long tank mean? (I have heard the recommendation to always stop for a second after a long tank by declarer, just in order not to do s.th. silly while still asleep...)

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