uday, on 2014-January-22, 14:11, said:
I'm not convinced that people want to chat about systems before playing.. are you ?
dunno about anyone else but when I first sit with a random p, even when subbing in a tourney I always say something like "2/1 standard carding ok p?" or "I'll try to play your card p, but I don't know a bunch of stuff on your profile." Usually it's "profile ok but not (Y)" or "I'll play your profile" or simply "ok" and we're off. They can see from my profile most of what I play and bid accordingly. If profiles disagree about RKC then I change mine to match theirs to avoid unnecessary confusion. It all takes about 5 seconds and establishes contact with partner. Not sure I know anyone who doesn't do this at "normal" tables, although maybe not as a tourney sub.
If I get invited to play a tourney and p won't talk to me even briefly about system/carding before the tourney I cancel as that tells me that p apparently doesn't consider bridge a partnership game.
Half the players at the intermediate and below group (maybe a lot at higher levels too) don't really know conventions that they claim to play anyway, so it's always use at your own risk even if they have them on their profile. I bet everyone playing Sayc or 2/1 has at one time or another been left staring at a combined 4 card trump suit contract they won after pard passed their splinter bid ...which p's profile claims he plays.