PriorKnowledge, on Jul 16 2004, 03:19 PM, said:
And while you are insulting masterpoints, I'll bet if I told you I had 30 masterpoints, you would never play with me. But if I told you I had almost 6,000 you would play with me in an instant.
You can't be talking about me. I choose to play with a partner not because of the number of masterpoints he has, but because of the expected compatability of our partnership. Sure, skill matters. But the number of masterpoints hardly is a good indication of skill. Want to find a good partner? Keep your eyes and ears open! You can get an idea if somebody is decent by playing against him. But just as important is, is the person compatible with me, and do I like the person, and will I have fun playing with this person?
I can't believe that anybody is so naive as to choose a partner based on the number of masterpoints somebody has.
If you told someone you had 6000 masterpoints, they probably wouldn't believe you whether you were telling the truth or not. After I've played a hand like a mouse in a maze, my partners wouldn't believe me if I told the truth!

Let's step up to the partnership desk. I've done that a couple of times and told the truth. You can imagine how my next few hours went.
When I had about 100 points and was off the radar screen for anybody good (maybe I'm supporting your supposition with that phrase), I was playing matchpoint pairs and after the event, a player with about 30 points asked me to play in the next tournament with him, citing as his reason for asking that I played a couple of hands really well against them. I agreed and he sent me 63 pages of system notes and we sent a few letters back and forth about defensive carding. We both had more fun and also were more successful than if either of us had been 'discovered' by someone with tons of masterpoints. He won the national Mini-McKenney race the following year. If either of us cared about playing with someone with a lot of points, that whole experience would have been missed. In case you think this is unusual, my wife found her regular partner (prior to me - her last partner was good!) when they were both novices and each discovered that the other had a clue. They came up through the ranks together and now her old partner is a professional bridge player. Neither of them would have been as successful if either of them had found a partner with a few hundred points that wasn't going to improve.
I don't know how many masterpoints any of my favorite partners have on BBO. Some might have a lot, some very few. But they're all fun to play with, and we're compatible. (They don't know how many I have either, some would guess zero.

) But your blanket statement about playing with you based on the number of masterpoints is just silly. If people notice that you play well, you'll get asked by decent players. Otherwise, not.
I tend to lead fourth best - as opposed to the best suit, the second best suit, or the third best suit for our side