csdenmark, on May 23 2004, 09:03 PM, said:
My advice will be: Tell them to learn Precision or try to find companions interested in what you are interested in - such kind of partnerships will have a chance to last.
Claus,
I know your suggestions are driven by the idea of directing my enthusiasm towards a more rewarding goal, and I appreciate this.
However, I do think you do not understand my sistuation in practical terms, so I will give details here.
I started playing 3 years ago, in the states. I learned by myself, being a Chess Master, buying a lot of books, studying the "right" books on bidding, play and defense (Mollo, Lawrence, Kelsey, Bergen, Cohen, Woolsey, Kantar, etc etc)suggested to me by Life Masters.
Also I made a lot of practice on BBO and at the local club.
I was playing SAYC + gadgets (Bergen, J2NT, Inverted raises, nmf, etc etc).
I developed some live partnerships with other "illuminated beginners", and it was fun after a while to play with someone who actually followed your defensive signals and whom you could trust on his signals !
2 years ago I moved to Italy, and it was another total change.
There nobody plays Bergen nor Jacoby nor almost anything I had learned in the US.
They play a strong club system but then most of the people just opens 1 club and then bids naturally.
If you mention "Asking bids" they may think you are asking for money rather than anything technical.
This si 90 % of the club. The remaining 10% are good players who have tehir ptsships and will not play with me.
Actually this should not come as a surprise to you nor to any bridge players: good partners are always taken. The left ones are either weak, or they are not taken because they are a....holes and noone can play with them.
So the first months at the club meant that everytime I had no pard for the next week and I should be coupled there with some Mr Smug yelling at me or with some Mrs Guggenheim looking at me in a sweet manner perhaps thinking to her cup of tea but certainly not to my defensive signals....
After a while I met my current partner.
He was an old buddy from ten years before (college time) and we used to play chess together at competitive level; we always got along well, at the time, then we did not keep in touch (I moved in the US, he married, etc etc).
He discovered I was playing bridge, and he was pleased of this, because, as an ex chess player, he knew we were in same frame of mind of trying to build something out of the bridge game. He was playing since longer than me, together with his wife, who is actually a "good" player (as good as me I mean

).
So we started to exchange books and exchange emails on the system (SAYC + gadgets, much like the one I used to play in the US).
And then we made a team, he plays with his wife and me (alternate), and I do the same with him and another girl who is a bright intermediate.
Periodically we try to fill the holes of the system, and some months ago we came to the conclusion that the SAYC system had several holes in terms of showing hands as a reverse, or, even worse, the 2C opening.
Of course, there are conventioins for almost each of these pitfalls, but thenm the adding up of conventions (Ingberman, Gazzilli, 2C + sequences, not to mention competitive bidding situations) suggested that we could just move to a strong club system.
The basic idea was to try to improve it littleby little. But then severalò things came up: TABs, CABs, SABs, strong club overcalled sequences etc etc.
Lots of stuff.
We want to learn, but there is a limit to the amount of things you can store.
My friends do not play online so we can practice only once a week at the local club tourney (they live in another town).
2 days ago, Alessandra, my partner, was almost crying because of the drop of her level of dummy play: she was doing silly mistakes, and it was obvious it was due to the overload by the system.
If there were relays it would be madness. (BTW: once I ended up playing a contract in an asking bid suit).
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You may say: "Give up these partners and look for better ones or that are willing to study".
1) I do not think to be better of my current partners
2) I do not think that a player like me *finds* parters. You may *find* a partner if you are an expert. But if you are like me, all you can find is a nervous advanced player who yells at you, or a lovely smiling old lady for some nice social bridge.
When you are a player of my level you do not FIND a partnership, you BUILD it.
You start with a lot of exchange of material and you make your choices with the consensus of your teammates.
You build partnerships based on respect, trust and harmony.
I'd rather play a distorted precision rather than change my partners, who are the most valuable part of my bridge activity right now.
Ok, end of the story, hope I did not bore too much anyone
and... BTW is there anyone who plays a better version of J2NT in a big club system ??
"Bridge is like dance: technique's important but what really matters is not to step on partner's feet !"