A few remarks:
1) All the problems mentioned above are real :-[.
2) All these problems cause unwanted annoyance :'(.
3) All these problems could be avoided if we were not so lazy to organize our own game

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4) We rather expect automatic babysitting, instead of using the present system's existing excellent organizing resources including this forum. But we are the maximalist and spoiled public ;D.
5) The service we got free!!!! are already much better than most of the on-line world can provide

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6) Though the ratio of improvement is incredible, I hope these whishes will be satisfied, especially the automatic labeling possibility (just count how many expert self declarations are valid).
7) All these problems root in the incredible success of BBO and caused by the undisciplined public. In these circumstances the average individual player has not enough time, energy, astuteness to go around. So, I hope Fred will make a mental note and put most of these wishes to the same priority level as tournaments.
8 ) Evidently, tournaments feature will be a great feat for BBO. But not to solve these wishes parallel or earlier, will accentuate the problem in tournaments.
9) We put all the problems to Fred's shoulder that originally is our own partner finding necessity, appropriate table finding necessity, appropriate ambiance finding necessity. These problems atrophy ACBL face to face clubs and at the same time propel on-line bridge. I think we do not need continuous and immense police force! What I would like to see are a few more tools like pop up personal remarks (instead of a black sea). And extending the practical use of existing organizing features like clubs would be an additional asset (to me they presently look pretty exclusive or temporary).
10) Behind BBO success is the immense work the developers invested into it. Additionally, the game here is the closest in play and in spirit to the one that the great Harold Vanderbild invented. "It is bridge baby" not a bunch of burocratic rules, poisoning rating systems and monster points. So, no surprise, BBO is surpassing all expectations!