hrothgar, on Jan 21 2008, 08:17 AM, said:
Hi Mike
I think that you have two reasonable choices
1. Call the Director after the lead is tabled and note that you believe that there may be a UI issue
2. Ignore the situation completely
Hmm, I'm not calling the director before I learn what they have. Maybe there is no problem at all. I might (seldomly) want to ask the opp's if they agree that there was a break of tempo or whatever the issue was.
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I don't believe that its appropriate for players to give lessons on proprieties.
Agree! The opponents will feel that they are being accused of cheating, which is basically also the case. It's not enough to try to appear polite when the message is not. This is the director's job.
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Moreover, I don't appreciate players who are unwilling to raise these issues directly. I find side channels complaints to the directorial staff deeply distasteful.
If you want to raise the issue, raise the issue. Otherwise keep quiet. What's the old saying "Speak now or forever hold your piece"
Agree strongly! If I think there is a case, I must raise it at the table or keep quiet. The aftertalk is so often one-sided and unfair to the opponents, and they really deserve to hear it directly, if there is a possible problem. Perhaps it's all a misunderstanding?!