Posted 2004-February-12, 12:09
A couple of hints...
You will have a better percentage chance of getting a fairly reasonable partner if you pick someone who says they are advanced rather than expert. Seems everyone and their dog list themselves as experts without any regard to their real ability. My experience is someone who realizes that while they are good they are not an expert and picks that is probably better than the vast majority of self proclaimed experts.
Second ignore the system they list on their profile, but instead look to what else they list. Do they list a few simple things you would to see your partner play.. say 14,03, nmf, gb2NT, lebehsnol... if they list a few of your favorite things this has a couple nice advantages. You will be able to communicate with them, and more importantly, they at least have heard of these things if they list them.
Third, kibitz a while and make friends with a few good players. It would be nice if they would play with you in events, but once you get a network of friends.. you can work through the seven degrees of freedom... ask your new friends if they know if so-and-so is a good player. Be aware that some people will never speak badly of other players (everyone is good or pretty good), and some players will never admit others are good.
Finally, and most importantly, play here more... the more you come, the more you learn who is who... my friends list is so long I don't dare have it alert me when a friend logs on or I am getting alerts all day.
Ben
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