This happened yesterday, at the local bridge club, no prizes, no TD, just "fun bridge". Yet it happened to deviate a bit due to this alerting incident. My p and I are two juniors, we play Symmetric Relay. Our opponents are an elderly man with a middle-aged woman. It's only our 2nd time at this club to play together, our first to use an artificial system.
I am dealt with this hand:
I open 1♣, hoping my stiff king can do something. My p alerts, and explains 16+ when asked. LHO overcalls 1♦ holding about 6 pts and QJ9xx. The bidding continues:
1♣-1♦-1♥!(4+ spades, I alert and explain when asked)-p-1♠!(relay, my p alerts and explains when asked)-p-2♦!(? I alerted it, it shows a "reverser": 5+ diamonds and EXACTLY 4 spades)-p-2♥-p-3♣!(exactly 4351 hand)-p-3♦!
Now, LHO asks my p: "what is 3♦?" (this was their first question since 1♠). My p says "relay, all his bids were relays". He asks again "so it's NOT natural, it's a relay" he says "yes, only he knows what I hold" I say now, somewhat unduly, "If you want to know, I can tell you his exact distribution". He "nono, it's OK, you'll tell us at the end". And he doubles my relay. My p now XX's, showing 3 controls. This comes back to me and despite the risk of an unlikely missed ♠ slam, I opt to pass this one out. They now ask me what his bids mean and start yelling at me when I tell them 2♦ showed a 5+ suit and dismiss my explanation "it specified his exact ♠ holding, too, not only showing some ♦'s" as being ridiculous and, of course, accuse us of unfair play and what not. LHO also told me "no bid should be alerted if it promises at least 4 cards in the suit bid". RHO said "if you are to alert a suit, you have to specify even without asking that it is natural, but it also promises something else". My p made 4, even with LHO getting 2 trump tricks.
Sorry for being so lengthy, probably half of the details would have sufficed.
My basic questions are:
1) Do you think "they are right"?
2) For instance, do you need to alert magic D-style 1M openers (8-12 unbal, 4+ cards"? Or if we make up a system with 1♥ promising a 6+ suit? Why do people alert Precision-style 2♣ bids?
3) Can someone finally give me a good indication on what to alert and what not to? WBF says something about being "standard" or opps "possibly needing an explanation". Doesn't that sound a bit ... vague? :unsure:
thanks for your kind replies,
Csaba

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